Does any one else have a word that triggers their kink-dar? I’m talking about those normal yet sneaky, seductive words that form part of everyday conversations at work or with friends, and when somebody uses one…wow. You’re squirming in your seat, adjusting yourself under the table, and thinking all manner of lascivious thoughts. 

You know the words I’m talking about, don’t you? 

Okay, in the interest of pulling back the curtain a bit, I’ll go ahead and share one of mine with you… Training.

Seems harmless enough, right? 

Well, maybe it was harmless until it entered my twisted little mind and burrowed its way into my submissive soul.

A Dom training a new submissive to give and receive pleasure, to perfect new positions, to adopt new practices, to come alive in the beauty of the gift that is their submission.

That same Dom training his submissive’s cute little ass to take his cock. 

A submissive training their mind to be still in the face of challenges and to look to their Dominant for comfort and reassurance.

Is it getting warm in here?? 🥵

What are the words that ping your kink-dar? Please share in the comments, if you’re comfortable doing so – I’d love to weave these into a decidedly non-vanilla story for all of us to share!

Hot Button Words

7 thoughts on “Hot Button Words

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  2. The top of my list would be “submission.” In various settings, this word is used to convey the idea of “submitting” (another word on the list) an assignment or a piece of artwork. On Night Cafe, some of the users still refer to their submissions to a challenge etc. I always use the word creations so I don’t keep grinning as I type it or read it.

    “Serve” is another one because it gets used so often with how may I serve you? or What shall I serve?

    One that may reveal a lack of maturity on my part is “come.” In all its various forms of usage, it can bring an invisible grin to my inner face. “Don’t you want to…” “Should I…” “…over here.”

    There are others but those would be the most commonly used ones I run into. Come to think of it, it might serve better to submit more later…

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  3. One of mine is “discipline”…I know, I know, this seems obvious. But as an academic, I hear the word “discipline” quite a bit, with regard to an area of study and not at all regarding a Dom disciplining his naughty submissive girl. I read a lot of health articles as well, and always get a thrill out of seeing “self-discipline”, as it reminds me of the times I’ve applied a paddle or hairbrush to my own bare bottom. I also LOVE the word “consequences”….that one sends a thrill right through me!

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